Balance
Friday, December 21, 2007, 12/21/2007 06:58:00 PM
BalanceI believe that every thing need a balance. For example, Eating. Eat too much and we will grow fat. Eat too little and we will be skinny as a bag of bone. Another example, Stress. Too much stress is unhealthy for your body and too little stress will give you no motivation to perform well. We are constantly searching for a balance, searching for an equilibrium between things in our life. But often, our decision making to find a balance will often cause a loss of other things...
It is difficult to find a balance between friends and your partner as the decision you make not only affect yourself, but also others. If you constantly spent your time with your partner, your friend will say you 重色轻友(Regard love as superior to friendship). If you constantly spent your time with your friend, your partner will think that you neglete him/her and doesn't love him/her that much. So how to make a decision that won't make both sides think that way?
I need more time! Wouldn't it be nice if we have 48hrs a day? We doesn't need to spent 1/3 of our day sleeping. I could spent 8hrs of my time sleeping, 12hrs of my time with friends, 12hrs with her, 8hrs with my family and 8hrs for my own space. We often want to do so many things but often have so little time...
I don't know what to do or what should I do. I don't know what to say or what should I say. I don't wish you to feel this way, guide me how not to make you feel this way... I really wish that you could laugh out loud and smile everyday.
True friends= Friends who trust you and whom you can trust
I can only enjoy when im with true friends
Cheers~
*.*"
