Wet Blanket
Wednesday, February 03, 2010, 2/03/2010 10:52:00 PM
In this world, people always have different views. For example, one person said that A is good while B is bad. Another person said that B is good while A is bad. But it bothers mean because everyone is asking.I'm in a situation where I wanted both A and B. But people ask me why I waste time to go take A while another person tell me why I waste time to take B. Than if that is the case, wouldn't I be wasting my time to take both A and B if both are correct? Than I should just listen and follow both sides and stay in my comfort zone right? But I have my own views and beliefs. I'm also a 21year old boy with a thought. My own thought which tells me what is should and what is shouldn't. And I stand on my own beliefs because I know what I want, what I can get out from both A and B. And I am sure I have thoughts of the subjects more than anyone else does.Yes. I like people to give me their views, their opinions so that I can improve on myself. But the way they give their opinion is in a demoralising way, in a way which is called "Wet Blanket". I stand on my beliefs because people can't justify a good reason for me to think otherwise. You can say that I am stubborn that I don't take in your advice, but aren't you stubborn to take in my views too?It is good that opinions and views are given, but it must be in a way where the person won't feel that he is stupid. You can disagree with me. But you can't disagree to an extent where you feel that the person is stupid for not listening to your views. You can't blame him. If I should feel that way too, I will feel that you are stupid because you don't take in my views. Sorry for writing this because it gets fustrating. Its like I have high hope for it but people are dragging my hope down. That shouldn't be the case.Hopefully, I still want advises on my choice but I sincerely hope that it is not words of "wet blanket". You may not agree with me, but do still encourage me. And thanks for friends who still encourage me=DBut I would also like to thank for the words of "Wet Blanket" because I will use it as a motivation to work harder and prove it.I should be sleeping by now. But i'm just annoyed.(I should do what I want to do, what I feel I should do, what I think is right to do)(This post is not discouraging Mr Ricky friend from giving him advices. He still love to listen to his friend. But he want his friends to also look at both sides, even if they disagree with him, they will still support and encourage him)Cheers~
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